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    What's With All the Nastiness and Disdain for Others in the Community

    Is it just the ego thing, or the general annoyance from those that know to those that don't?

    Have any of you ever seen the skit on SNL wher the "tech support guy" who knows everything constantly condescends to the others in the office? You know, if they don't use the exact, correct term or don't follow the exact, proper procedure, then they get to hear that exagerrated, condescension?

    It appears, that guy works in THIS office, in fact, in this exact community. You know, it is a real shame.

    I am all for etiquette and trying to do the searchers for topics first. Of course that make sense. Granted, the search engine isn't exactly something I would want to use if I were looking to figure my salary or gather information about performing brain surgery, as the returns aren't always great.

    People come to these boards to learn. I am neither a newb nor a guru at this point. I tend to fall somewhere in between. However, I have seen some people being REAL a-holes to others. What is the thrill????

    I understand f'ing with people now and then, after all , people sometimes deserve it. But, WOW!! I have seen some pretty descent questions just absolutely HAMMERED by some real winners out there. Is that the atmosphere you all want?

    I mean, if you want to leave the "public sector" out and talk in binary, I completely understand. That is why we all have email. If you are getting some really insipid questions, like "how do you install a game" I get it. But some of the flaming that has gone on has been REALLY lame.

    A little to philosphical, perhaps. However, peole have got to learn somewhere. If you don't want to help them, I understand, but do you really need to sock them in the nuts and then kick sand in their faces?

    Think about it....

    #2
    There are always idiots.

    Just ignore them and life is much better.

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      #3
      Find me a forum without people like that. The anonymity provided by the internet lets people get away with saying things that they never would in real life.

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        #4
        A forum without people like that.

        It's a well moderated forum. Unlike here.

        (For web development)

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          #5
          well, I'll be philisophical somewhat in return...
          - people are mean. Everywhere. It sucks, but it's true.
          - I think people *here* are pretty supportive of each other. I have posed some damned stupid questions and not been flamed for it. However, there are some bad apples.
          - There is an ignore function. It's your friend.

          You've been pretty silent for three weeks, and then you start this thread which uses broad strokes to paint everyone else here as mean & petty. Was that a nice thing to do? By telling everyone here how horrible we are, have you raised the discourse?

          If you want a friendly, supportive forum, post friendly supportive posts. If you can do that, you will help create a forum that you enjoy.

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            #6
            i know what you mean...when i see those people my blood starts to boil..

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              #7
              gb2angermanagement

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                #8
                Another place w/out people like that here as well.

                http://www.squadengine.com/forums/

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                  #9
                  Re: What's With All the Nastiness and Disdain for Others in the Community

                  Originally posted by afavre
                  Is it just the ego thing, or the general annoyance from those that know to those that don't?


                  Yeah it is a shame. But there are lots of people who are happy to help too.

                  Remember that computers and social adaptability dont go hand in hand. Unfortunately the geek with all the answers is also the guy who has problems forming real world friendships and acheiving real world successes. His only outlet is through his keyboard and thus needs to try and fight for superiority and achieve a 'better than you' status online.

                  People like me probably dont help, eg the people who flame the flamers and fight fire with fire. This only infuriates them more and they have to reply to get the last word. The difference between them and me is that I know when to stop. I enjoy reading their replies but have the confidence to know why they react in that way and feel secure and complete enough to not have to respond. For me it is just a way to fill a few spare mins at work, for others it is their life.

                  As pointed out above, this is not unique to this forum/community, it can be seen throughout the online world. But dont be too disheartned - there are many mature areas on the net where people do exclusively work together cooperatively. Seek and ye shall find...

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                    #10
                    Re: What's With All the Nastiness and Disdain for Others in the Community

                    Originally posted by afavre
                    People come to these boards to learn. I am neither a newb nor a guru at this point. I tend to fall somewhere in between. However, I have seen some people being REAL a-holes to others. What is the thrill????
                    Please give some examples of what you are referring too.
                    I understand f'ing with people now and then, after all , people sometimes deserve it. But, WOW!! I have seen some pretty descent questions just absolutely HAMMERED by some real winners out there. Is that the atmosphere you all want?
                    It's a game forum dude. This isn't Melrose Place, we don't all love each other.

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                      #11
                      I seem to remember even people on Melrose Place not getting along at times.

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Flynn Flak
                        I seem to remember even people on Melrose Place not getting along at times.
                        Not my saying. That was a quote from Dom of Real World 2 fame.

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                          #13
                          Some people are :noob: in this world
                          Some people are :heart: in this world

                          The only thing about these forums is that the ones who are :noob: have nothing to lose by acting as such in this situation.

                          My favourite is when idiots get into one of those annoying threads of conversation where they start quoting each other and then picking apart every argument and even word down to the spelling in an arrogant tone of superiority as if they can't see the cliche they are completely fulfilling.

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                            #14
                            My absolute biggest annoyance has to be the ones that just say 'search' or post a picture of the search button. These people are bottom of the pile, in my opinion. It doesnt take long to either:

                            a: Give them the answer, if you know, or
                            b: Tell them you don't know, but a search might get some answers.

                            It's really not hard.

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                              #15
                              Re: Re: What's With All the Nastiness and Disdain for Others in the Community

                              Originally posted by Deadsheep
                              Please give some examples of what you are referring too.
                              You've got to be kidding. Hell, you can **** near pick a thread at random and find some buttmunch telling everyone how stupid they are. I just responded to one yesterday in this thread. Look at "LastPlaced's" reply to "djini_hades's" when he asked "NW? WTF? No idea what this is... Please help me out". Now the dude even said please but the condescending **** he got from LastPlaced was:

                              "are your really that dull or is that some kind of joke, or clever remark? If so, can someone who gets it let me know. If you really are that dull then I suggest a quick search."

                              So there's one example for ya, and I could sit here all day and give you hundreds more. Are you implying you've never seen any of this, or do you just not know what the OP is talking about?

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