I hopped on Gears today and my friend invited to a game, so I tried joining and it says "Your Settings will not allow you to play gears online." The next thing I do is look at my settings and is says that Online Multiplayer is ALLOWED. My Gold membership hasn't expired so I don't know whats the deal. So the question is Why won't it let me play online Gears of war 3 online? Has anyone experienced this?