I think that nows a perfect time to organize your game and join a clan. I know that there are still plenty of excellent players out there on PS3 who are freelancing. I respect that, but here's where your problem lies. I've noticed that many players complain about the lack of competitive play and their being no busy servers. Being in a competitive clan gives you access to many locked, highly competitive matches that your probably not seeing because you don't select Show Locked Servers. Also clans usually all have mics and code names / strategies for pulling out a win. Tired of noobs ruining your games? A clan eliminates that B.S. too.
Trust me on this one guys, earn a spot in a respected clan and you'll soon wonder whAT the HECK WAS i THINKIN? Good luck out there guys, thanks for playing UT3.